Innocent Emotional Affair – Is That Considered Cheating?
Cheating may become enmeshed in an emotional affair. People often use to give answer as “It’s harmless” or “We’re just friends” when someone ask them about emotional affair.
People having emotional affair becomes unable to observe the damage occurring in their marriage life due to the emotional affair with someone.
An observation produce a result by couples marriage counseling sessions that if emotional intimacy is lacking in marriage life then chances of emotional affair becomes high. Emotional distance, hostility and conflict become part of marriage life for a short or long term time.
In this situation friends use to give seductive lure and pull of an intense emotional connection each other that feels easy, safe and comforting. Friendship is a layer that covers the strong sexual chemistry.
Initially friendship started in an innocent manner, as the friendship progresses ahead bond between two friends deepen. Due to this energy stay away slowly between the marriage life.
Getting affected with emotional affair increase in co-workers, casual friends, after chatting on internet as anonymous. After some time they use to share their daily routine life with each other like about themselves, their partners, and their relationships.
Usually it becomes the first reason that makes trouble in future. Condition becomes worst when they start to share more with the friend then spouse because they thought that friend understand them better than their spouse as a result they use to talk with friend.
They also feel a special kind of comfortable absence in their spouse. Last red signal that is when they keep secret from their spouse and the frequency of contact secret increases.
People having emotional affair know that what would happen when their spouse come to know about this extent of contact and emotional connection. If you come to find out that your spouse is involved in emotional affair, will bring quarrel in their relationship. They felt that their spouse made him dump and what has happened as deception.
Involving partner use to attempt downplay and try to end it. Involving partner makes sure the spouse that there is no physical relation with them so no need to worry about this much. They may give accuse of being jealous and make try to get him back.
But emotional affair may spoil the marriage life. It destructs the focus of the partners to solve their problem and to improve their quality of relationship. While their marriage life suffers from bad emotionally and physically way, at the same instant of time spouse ends up forming a close, intimate connection with a friend outside the marriage.
The bad result comes out when spouse file for divorce with their respective spouse and there is a possibility to occur it again in their new marriage life with another friend. When situation becomes as they have in their previous marriage life then again they will do the same.
If partners use not to deal with problems in their marriage relationship then problem will be come in their marriage life or in subsequent marriage life.
WOWwww, I heard about emotinal affairs but I didn’t really know what it really
Means until I read this so thank you very much for the info.My husband got too many female friends that I never met they always call them for advice & to share their personal problems with him and every time I told him to tell there females to go talk to their husbands or a therapist he get angry at me & we end up having a huge argument that day due to my jealousy and insecurity. We been married for 5 years and we have two kids, I’ve had enough cause he don’t listen to me instead he stays on the phone talking to these emotional bitches, I’m so upset & hurt, I added some of these girls to my Facebook friends do I can find out more about their intentions but they decline my friend request, I told my husbad about it, he said maybe they are scared of me!!! He’s 5 years older than me and all these girls are around his age I don’t understand why they ate scared of someone younger than them, to you think that what he’s doing is an “Emotional Affair”???