At some point of time every one everyone needs introspection as to how their relationship has thrived till then. This is equally applicable to the partners who led life together for a short or long spell or a couple who spent years together.
The following are 4 tips one has to consider for making a joyful, strong and loving life together that should last forever. These tips help identify the possible areas of conflicts in the relationships.
1. It is all about being a friend.
Romantic love never lasts forever. A time may come when one or both of the partners may not be in a mood to retain the romantic feelings for various reasons. Romance is by no means bad but one may not be able to maintain it always. If one thinks romance should be ever there in relationships, he is only looking for some trouble.
To be in loving mood in relationships, the partners have to be good friends also. In good friendship both remains together even when there is a good or bad atmosphere in life. Such a friendship gives mutual support in turbulent days of life. Good friends are those who stand behind you in difficult times as well as happy days.
Your best friend or partner has to be your own spouse who shares the good and bad times with you. You both have to share the same mindset throughout. Hence even when romantic love is not intensive, it is for you to live together and the day romantic love revisits your life you can fall in love and rejoice together.
2. Communicate, communicate, and communicate.
If you don’t follow the relationship meticulously you can`t continue as good friends. It should be possible for you to communicate your true feelings and emotions to your partner.
There are many couples in this world who talk only about their children, once children are borne. A good relationship is possible only through the communications of all sorts in everyday life.
3. Accept each other.
In any relationship, acceptance of each other without worrying about judgment is more important. You can make your life worthy, only through a well-built relationship with your partner.
Remember that your partner is the only person who has the opportunity to see you naked and has knowledge about your up front face that you normally project before others. Your partner is the one who loves you despite all your flaws. You should also reciprocate by accepting some deficiencies of your spouse. The flaws indicated here do not include the illicit relations which are destructive for both the partners.
4. Spend quality time together.
Cordial relationship grows in life only by spending joyous moments together with good mutual communications. Engage in activities of mutual tastes of both of you without sitting before the visual media through out. Spending quality time together is most important for building an uninterrupted relationship between the partners.
Many couples work hard, earn money spend their maximum time in household matters and taking care of their children, giving least priority to spend time with the partner. Going out for a dinner or movie and dating once a month without anyone else will help the spouses to spend some precious time together and recharge their relationships. If they fail to spend quality together, they will continue to lag in life as strangers to each other.